The words you speak are more powerful than you may be able to understand. They are not like cotton balls, but more like the weight of trucks falling from the sky. That’s a lot of weight to drop on someone. When you speak to your spouse, children, and other people, your words can either give them life or death. When you open your mouth I hope you sound like love.
Do you really think about what is about to come out of your mouth? Did you really mean what you just said? The truth is, if you said it you meant it. Maybe you thought differently after you heard yourself say it out loud but it did come out of your mouth. We don’t speak words on accident, so keep your apology and just explain why you feel or think the way you do.
Whatever is in my heart towards you, is what is going to come out of my mouth and show in my actions. The two should be one and the same. You cannot crush me with your words and look at me and say that you love me. You are a confused liar if you think it works like that. If you love someone you won’t say or do things that will hurt and destroy them. When you love someone your words bring them joy not pain. If you have to wonder what is coming out of their mouth next and will it send you into depression or anger, that is not love.
Love sounds like the sweetest song anytime of day. Love says hey what can I do for you. Love says I’m so glad you’re here with me, I can’t imagine life without you. Love says you’re the most important person in my life. Love talks to you like you’re the only person in the room. Love says how can I serve you today. Love says you complete me and I will never hurt you on purpose. Love says I give you all I have. Love is like sunshine, and rain because you need both to make things grow.
Love does not attempt to break you down with words like I can’t stand you. Love won’t say you make me sick. Love won’t say I don’t know why I’m even here with you. Love won’t say leave me alone you disgust me. Love won’t compare you with other people to put you down. Love won’t say you’re worthless. Love won’t say don’t touch me, move. Love won’t say I’m leaving you because my feelings aren’t happy with you right now.
Love is solid and it does not fall off. Feelings fall off or go up and down. Love will always sound like life and not death to your mental or emotional state of being. Love will always make you feel like you can fly. When love speaks, it will always have the same voice no matter who’s speaking. Make sure that when you speak you sound like love. “Everything is about relationship, build them well”.